Type of man: What’s your love compatibility? It might be easier to just ask you if you know what zodiac signs you’re most compatible with and the ones you should avoid at all costs? You always hear about the type of guy you’re meant to be with, but never the one you’re NOT meant to be with. Wouldn’t it be so much easier if astrology and your daily horoscope told you which guys to look out for instead of the ones who will end up just being another ex? I know it would for me.
I would be too worried about trying to find the men I should stay away from (so that I could stay away from them) that I would totally miss out on all the other guys who would be the better options for me. Maybe that’s just me, but you get my point.
Of course, knowing which type of guy you’re NOT meant to be with when you’re already in a relationship might actually be a good way to know if the relationship you’re in is actually worth the trouble.
Finding the right guy — like, the one you want to spend a long time with — can be difficult. Finding out the truth on love compatibility is not easy, it’s hard to read the signals.
It’s so hard to know what someone wants upfront (without being too assertive and creepy) that you almost have to waste your time just to get a straight answer about his intentions.
That sounds bad, but I am not a fan of dating. Sure, I like to meet new people, but actually going on dates is always so painful for me.
I’d rather go on a date with Jigsaw than another date with a guy who makes me drive 45 minutes just for him to be unable to keep a decent conversation.
It’s happened before and I’m sure it’ll happen again. But dating isn’t always that bad. It’s being with someone for a long time, trying to decide if it’s meant to be, that takes some deep thought.
Trying to know whether the person you’re dating is the one you want to spend your life with can be difficult.
Obviously, you can’t outright ask him — I mean, you could, but I don’t know how that kind of conversation would happen — and just “knowing” if the guy you’re with is the one you’re meant to be with forever doesn’t always work for everyone.
What does work is knowing what astrology teaches about your zodiac sign says about you and your preferences for love.
If your personality is more outgoing and extroverted, say, then you know that the man you’re meant to be with isn’t going to be someone who would rather stay home on a Friday night instead of at the club, right? Makes a lot more sense that way, doesn’t it?
So, by that logic, keep reading to find out which guy you’re not meant to be with, based on astrology. Because let’s face it, not every guy is going to be “The One”, but it’s up to you to weed out the bad guys and find that special one.
ARIES (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Aries, the only thing you hate more than having a “lazy day” yourself is dating someone whose lazy day is the only thing in their schedule for Saturday. What I mean is, you are all about go, go, go and the only reason why weekends exist is because they let you get done everything you couldn’t fit in during the week.
So, when going out for sushi and a movie is on your schedule, and your S.O. would rather stay in for the six weekend in a row, you know that this relationship probably isn’t going to work out.
There might have been a time when you thought that the fact that he’s probably about 50% couch potato was endearing and a way for you to “slow down and smell the roses” or whatever, but now, you know better. You need someone who is on your level all the time, not just when the mood strikes. Get yourself a new man, babe, this one isn’t meant to stick around.
TAURUS (Apr 20 – May 20)
Taurus, you love all the lovey-dovey crap that would make any other person roll their eyes and you expect your partner to feel the same (as you, not everyone else). So, when you finally realize that the man you’re with — or the one you’ve been considering asking out — is so much more infatuated with himself than you, then you know something isn’t exactly right.
You don’t mind having someone who takes pride in looking good before you two go out and all that, but when he’d rather kiss his own reflection before bed and not you, you know it’s not gonna last.
Unlike some people in this position, it’s not so much the fact that he likes being the center of attention that bothers you; it’s the fact that he would rather take care of himself than YOU that really bugs you. How are you supposed to keep up with his exhausting schedule of making him feel loved when all it does is seriously drain you? Exactly — there’s your answer.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini, you’re an in-charge kind of woman, which means that you need an in-charge kind of guy to be your one and only. You love the thought of ruling the city like a Kim and Kanye type of power couple that you’re always on the look-out for someone to be your other half when you’re out with friends. But you need to remind yourself that this is the best way to find the one you’re meant to be with, instead of giving up and trying the library or a coffee shop.
You’re an extroverted person and I hate to say it, but the only people who frequent coffee shops and bookstores are the people who aren’t very social. The last person you’re meant to be with – and I mean like last person on earth – is the shy guy who seems mysterious, but is really just a wallflower. There’s nothing like hating your relationship when it’s Friday night (again) and you have to drag him out just for one drink — AGAIN.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer, when you think of the ideal relationship — ideal meaning the two of you will live in your princess castle forever and ever — you think of someone you can lock it down early with. You’re the type of person who plans her wedding before she can even spell wedding, so you need someone who’s more similar to you than you think. The kind of guy who says stuff like, “When you know, you know!” because that’s the type of thing you ALWAYS say about dating.
The guy you absolutely need to stay away from is the playboy who doesn’t care about you, your feelings. or your princess castle. All he wants is to get laid and flirt, and if you’re unlucky enough to get sucked into his web, then you already know it can be tempting to just stay and let him get what he wants, even though it’s a terrible idea to put what you really want on pause.