Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You’re just too much of a player. Let’s face it. You can’t keep your focus on just one relationship for too long. That’s why you’re still single. You have a very frantic mind – and a very frantic heart to go along with it. You’re going to have to learn to slow things down. Really take the time to settle in with someone; and then you’ll start to find success in your relationships.
Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
Stop being someone who is so easily set off. You are practically the human equivalent of a ticking-time bomb. People always feel like they have to walk on eggshells around you. No one wants to contradict you because of how stubborn you are and how intense you can get with your reactions. Learn to be more receptive of contradicting opinions too.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You just need to be more assertive about who you are and what you want. As a Gemini, you tend to be a people-pleaser. You are always willing to adjust and compromise who you are for the sake of making the people around you happy. But that won’t work in a relationship because you are only going to end up feeling bitter, used, and unhappy.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You have to be stronger. Like a Gemini, you tend to always compromise your own happiness for the sake of that of others. And that’s wrong because you open yourself up to being used and abused a lot. You need to be more discerning of the trust that you bestow on others. You can’t just let other people walk all over you all of the time.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Stop being so selfish. There is never going to be room for another special person in your life because of your ego. You are never going to find success in relationships unless you learn to make room in your heart for other people.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Stop trying to be so excessively controlling in your relationships. You have to recognize that people generally don’t respond well to being controlled or manipulated. And you can’t expect yourself to find love with anyone if you keep on trying to control them for your own benefit.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Stop being so fickle-minded and learn to stand up for what you really want. You can’t be so spineless because no one is going to respect you that way. Stop deferring the decision-making process to the people that you’re with. Learn to be brave enough to actually steer the ship of your relationship; and learn to be accountable to your actions.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You need to be more trusting of other people. It’s good that you like to stay guarded. It’s good that you protect yourself. That’s smart. But you also have to understand that you need to open yourself up to a certain extent if you want to find success in love with another person. You can never be intimate with someone if you keep closing yourself off. Love is a risk – and you have to be willing to take that risk.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Stop projecting yourself as a person who is too lackadaisical and noncommittal. As a Sagittarius, you have a free spirit. But that also means that people generally can’t rely on you to be there for them when they need you to. You need to present yourself as a solid and reliable candidate for a romantic partnership if you want to b taken seriously.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Be more receptive of other peoples’ advances. You have to make time for relationships if you want to find success in them. Your life can’t just be purely be about your career. You have to learn to give time and attention to other facets of life. You are still single because you don’t devote enough time or energy to your love life at all.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Develop your emotional instincts and then you’ll find success in relationships. The reason that you’re still single is because you don’t really have a good grasp of your own feelings or the feelings of others. Yes, you are very smart and analytical. But you also lack people-skills. You need to learn to be more mindful of other peoples’ feelings before you can fall in love with someone.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Be more mature. It’s as simple as that. You have your head in the clouds a lot. And while it’s good to maintain a sense of optimism in your life, it also pays to be a realist. Blind optimism is a sign of immaturity. And if you keep your head in the clouds for too long, then you’re never going to develop the temperament that you need to face the harsh realities that come with relationships.