Scorpio women (Oct. 24 – Nov. 21) are known for being mysterious, intense, seductive, alluring, powerfully appealing, secretive, passionate, loyal, sympathetic, and highly intuitive. Scorpio women are possessive and jealous in love, so they require mates who truly make them number one. When hurt, Scorpio women also know how to lash out. They also don’t forgive easily, if they ever do, so don’t test them. Scorpio women require partners who can both inspire and stimulate them on all levels, ranging from the pyschological to the physical, or they lose interest and go looking for another romantic encounter.
Flirting with other women or trying to make her jealous is a definite no-no with these women, since they know how to dominate and manipulate to get what they want. They are not the types to shy away from arguments and confrontations, and they know how to win in most situations. The slogan, “I desire, therefore I am,” holds true for these women. They key to a more harmonious life entails mastering these desires.
Due to her secretive nature, she can be the most loyal of friends, however, on the opposite end, she can also be your worst nightmare. Scorpio women are very powerful, and in regards to sexuality, a wise and mature Scorpio will use the phyisical for healing purposes. An immature and impulsive Scorpio uses her body as a weapon, thus manipulating others in order to gain power and control in a situation. Although extremely sensitive, Scorpio women know how to get up after a struggle. They are not victim types, but they face situations head on, never giving in.
Now, regarding your concerns, Madame Scorpio. Firstly, do not give up on true love finding its way to you, but perhaps it is wise to step back, slow down, and asses the situation. Stop looking for love and affirmation in relationships with men. You have to find that in yourself and get to a point where you don’t require a man’s adoration to feel loved. When you don’t look, that’s when love comes knocking.
Secondly, Scorpio women are best with their fellow water signs, such as Cancer (June 21 – July 22) and Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20); and second best with the earth signs such as Taurus (April 20 – May 20), Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22), and Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19).
Thirdly, you mentioned that you feel you need someone more emotionally stable than yourself. If this is the case, I would steer towards either a Capricorn or Taurus, since both will naturally ground and contain you the way you need. Usually, they are neither ruled by their emotions nor reactionary (like the water signs).
Fourthly, as for you attracting two ends of the spectrum (either weak or Alpha men), I suggest you paying more attention to what you are putting out in the world. Watch how you use your body and sexuality as weapons. I believe that once you understand the power of your own sexuality, you will more accurately project your deeper needs.
Keep in mind that you are one of the most powerful of all the signs in the zodiac. Also, you were most likely wise beyond your years as a child. Use these aspects to move ahead in life. Become more aware of your need to control and attain power; tap into your other gifts which allow you to utilize your amazing sensitivity for the good.
You need a partner who will be in-tune with you and know how to read you, since you have so many hidden layers. Usually this means that your fellow water signs are a great match for you, but since you specified that you need someone emotionally stable, then as I suggested earlier, Capricorn or Taurus may be your best matches.