The INTP is one of the rarest types among the 16 Myers-Briggs Personality types. To be a female INTP is even rarer; only 2% are women. If you find one, cherish her, because we are inconceivably unique and out of the ordinary. Here are some pros and cons of dating us INTP females.


We are fiercely independent. Therefore, we are not needy and do not like to restrain, or otherwise control you. You will be free to be you. We accept you, flaws and all, because once we’re in a relationship, we’re very loyal and committed. We do not like mind games. If you are the game playing type, an INTP female is not for you.

We are very simple and low maintenance. We don’t expect the best of the best. Who can complain about that?

We are excellent problem solvers. No problem is too big for us to solve. We love solving them. It really excites us.

We are creative and imagining things is like a drug to us. We are always coming up with new ideas, so we will always have exciting things to talk about and do.

We are always reading and learning. We are like walking encyclopedias, and of course, knowledge is power. Dating us will not only make you smarter, it will make you more powerful. See, that was supposed to be funny… to highlight our quirky sense of humor.


We can be detached and unavailable emotionally, and lost in our own private world. So we might not be able to realize your emotional needs outright.

We are spontaneous, which is another way of saying that we’re not very structured, and that could cause problems for those of you who are.

We dislike small talk, so we will disengage and drift off into space with maybe a nod and an occasional “yes” or “okay”, to let you think we are paying attention.

We have an underlying fear of commitment because we fear being controlled, so it may take some time for us to commit when dating us.

This next one could go either way, although for us INTP females, we would consider this a pro. It is next to impossible to lie to us because of our extraverted intuition and our ability to recall and analyze; we can pick out any inconsistency in a story.

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