In everyday life, on television, on the Internet we hear about so many things that men are doing wrong or that they are not doing the right things at all. Maybe every once in a while we should stop and see what are the good things that your man is doing for you. He is only human and makes mistakes sometimes, but if he is doing these things, you can be sure that he appreciates you, and he is trying his best to make you happy.
1. He always makes time for you
No matter how busy his day is, he always has time to drink coffee with you, even for half an hour because you matter to him. He wants to see you, so you can be included in his life and he in yours.
We sometimes forget that he also has a job or is studying, that he needs to spend some time with his family, that his friends didn’t go away when he started dating you or that he just sometimes wants to watch the game alone. Despite all that, you see each other almost every day.
That is some proof, isn`t it?
2. He wants advice from you
That is one important indicator that he appreciates you. It shows that he cares about your opinion, trusts you with his problems and believes that your advice will help him. Just imagine yourself in that situation.
From whom do you ask advice? From a person who is important to you, whom you trust and with whom you are close or a person you started dating because you didn’t want to be single and you don’t really care about?
3. He is supportive when things don’t go well for you
If you didn’t pass the exam or didn’t get the job you wanted, if he is there for you, giving you a motivational speech about how great you are and how you definitely deserved the job, then he is a keeper.
The person who doesn’t appreciate you will never do that. This person doesn’t think that you can do whatever you want because he thinks you are ordinary.
So if you have that guy who tells you ”You`ll get it the next time”, then you are one lucky girl.
4. He makes plans with you
The reason why this is important is very simple. When you’re planning your weekend or holiday, with whom do imagine spending it with? With people you love and care about, of course.
And if he is doing this, then who cares if he also makes plans with guys to go out for a beer. The problem in this situation would be if he is always made plans with other people, never with you.
5. He gives you compliments
Every woman on this planet wants to hear from her guy that she is beautiful and that the dress looks good on her. This is something that will never change. So every woman deserves to hear that in her relationship.
6. He always says ”Thank you”
It’s a small thing that makes a big difference. Imagine the situation that you made him a cake and he doesn’t say it or you just helped him by cleaning his desk. If he doesn`t thank you, then he is taking you for granted.
The guy who appreciates you will appreciate everything you do for him, and he will be grateful for your help, even if it is small.
7. He helps you with cleaning or cooking
He may not be a good cook, but when it comes to helping you, he is always there without asking. Same goes with cleaning. He doesn’t appreciate you or your time if he lets you do all the chores yourself, even if his mum usually did that for him.
8. He is friendly with your friends and family
Every girl wants a guy who will behave like this, and if he really cares for you, he’ll do it without you having to tell him. He realizes that these people are important to you, and he wants them to like him because he also wants to be important to you.
9. He is not forcing you to do anything you don’t want to do
This is a very important topic, especially if it comes to sex questions and you are not ready for it. It can also be all sorts of things such as he drives a motorcycle, and you`re afraid of it. If you really don’t want to do something, he will understand you and leave that question alone.
10. You have completely different tastes in movies or music and he respects yours very much
Making fun of your taste in music would be so rude, and you could never be yourself in front of that person without wondering if he is going to make fun of you. Knowing that you are different and that he respects any differences means that he cares for you and appreciates that you are staying loyal to yourself.